Have you even been chatting to a beautiful girl at a party and been showering her
with false compliments so she’ll take an interest in you? I know I have and probably
every guy reading this article has. That is because it’s basic human psychology for
you to think that if you compliment someone they will know that you think they’re
great. You will probably also think that by giving them lots of compliments that girls
know you are interested in them. This can certainly be true; however this girl has
probably heard the same compliments five times over from different guys that night.

The real question you have to ask yourself is how do I get this girl to like me whilst
separating myself from the pack? Perhaps the answer is a way of chatting to girls
called “negging” which basically means being negative about them. Now trust me
this works but only if used correctly. You do not want to go up to a girl and start
insulting her; you will just seem like an ass. If you want to get a girl to like you
then you have to use negative comments which are counterbalanced by stronger
positive comments. For example you have been chatting to a girl for about 5 or 10
minutes and you ask where she got her earrings, she’ll tell you and you can “neg”
her by telling her that you don’t think they suit her too well. You can then counter
this by saying that perhaps a different color would suit her better to go with
her eyes. The way negging works is to send out a clear signal that you appreciate her
beauty, but you are confident enough to critique her as well. If this girl gets hit on a
lot then you have subtly just moved yourself to playing the game on a different level.
You are approaching her differently than the rest of the guys throwing generic
compliments at her day in day out. Obviously as you can see from the example above
you are supposed to neg her on small things and do it after a bit of general chatting.

It is unadvisable to walk up to a girl and tell her she’s got a big nose and try
counterbalance it by saying it can be easily sorted with surgery. You will start
to see that after you have shown on a respectable level that you can critique
girls they will start listening more to what you have to say. You will earn much
more of their respect and be looked at in a different light to lots of other guys.
This gives you more leverage to ask a girl for her number, on a date or even more.
You have build up a foundation of respect and probably created a lot of interest in
yourself from the girl as you have approached her differently to almost all other guys.
Negging is a great way of how to get a girl to like you.

How to get a girl to like you: How to escape the friend’s zone

You have met this amazing girl on a party. She is blonde, pretty, funny and basically
everything you look for in a woman. She is one of those girls you want to have. So
you decide to chase her and what happens? You are ending up in the friend’s zone.
She tells you how hot this guy is she met and you think why is this happening to me?
It happens to all of us in our lives, but how do you get out of the friends zone? Back
then I had no clue, but actually it is very easy to get out. You have to know why you
got in the friends zone in the first place and after that you just need to accept it. If
you do that you are a lot further then most guys ever will be. Let me explain.

How to get a girl to like you:  Friends VS Lovers

Friends are there for each other whenever they need each other. The only thing is you
don’t want to be her friend. No! You want to be her lover! This will change everything.
You have to see it in a clear perspective. Let me teach you some economics 101. When
something is scarce people are willing to pay more for it. Also they are far more attracted
to it then things they can get easily. Take a Bugatti Veyron and an apple.  The apple isn’t
that valuable because people can get it everywhere. But how about the Bugatti?  The
veyron costs a million and it was sold out before you knew it.People are obsessed with
‘’scarcity’’ I know it is not the best example, but what does it has to do with the dating
game? If you are always around her and easy to get; you become less interesting to her.
But if you are busy with your ‘’own life’’ you are a lot more interesting and she naturally
wants to be a part in your life.  Economics can be useful sometimes!

How to get a girl to like you: conclusion

She only knows how valuable you are until you are gone. Do you know the
saying:’’ you only know how valuable it is until it is gone?’’ So you know
what you have got to do right?

You’re Actions:

We have discussed some of the theory behind the dating game but you want specific step
by step actions, right? Here is what to do.

1. Don’t be available all the time
2. Make sure NOT to call her every day
3. If she calls you, don’t call her back right away
4. Ignore her a little bit and start dating other women.

An interesting thing will happen. She will miss you and starts to realize how fun it is to be
around you. And that’s when a woman will start the chase. She wants to have you!  If
women chase you, you are basically out of the friend zone. Remember to give her a hard
time, because women love a challenge! That’s it! Anybody can do it!

The female psychology exposed!

We think we men are pretty competitive, but the fact is that we aren’t as competitive as
women. Just watch a model show on television and you will see the things women do to
win! They will spread false gossip; even sabotage the success of other competitors.  Take
a classroom of 20 women and 2 men. Do you know what happens? World War III. That’s
natural competition and women love it!

Just give her competition and everything will be fine. Why is that?

You show them that you have strong genes, that women want you. Another reason is
that women always want what they can’t have. Learn to say no more often and you
will be surprised what effect if will have. Women don’t hear often no from a men.

How to get a girl to like you: My ‘’sneaky’’ little trick to get the girl you want

Let’s say you are stuck in the friend’s zone, and want an easy way out. I tried some stuff
and found a great way to get out of the friends zone very quickly. What you do is you
don’t call her until she calls you. (That’s her first challenge) Probably she wants to
hang out ‘’complain’’ about the bad boy she is been dating. The next thing is crucial.
Tell her that you want to shop for a new outfit, because you have a date lined up.
Women love to play matchmaker and shopping. Getting a yes is almost guaranteed.
Have fun; don’t be needy when you actually are out shopping. Act confident; don’t
ask her if you look fat in those jeans, thank her for her help afterwards. Make sure you
tell her EXACTLY when you have your date and don’t call her anymore until she calls
you. She will probably ask you how your date was. Tell her that it went very well, even
if it didn’t. This will activate her attraction switch, because you are interesting to another
woman. Your market value will go up instantly and her competitive spirit will try
everything to get you. If this doesn’t work, just move on, because there is nothing you
can do anymore. It is one of the most effective ways to get what you want.
Thanks for reading and see you in the next post!

How to get a girl to like you: honesty is the key

What I see a lot of men doing is ‘’beating around the bush’’. They act like they are friends
with women but the thing is that they really want to have sex with her. I used to be such
a guy. The truth is letting her know what you really want works extremely well. Being
absolutely honest to yourself and the world is the best way to achieve the life you want
and become far less frustrated. I  used to think that I had to be ‘’nice’’ to make a girl like
you. For women it is very refreshing to meet a guy who is absolutely honest about his
intentions. I always looked at girls and stripped them from their clothes in my mind.
And when they looked at me I would look away and sometimes I would get caught and
apologized for it. Later in live I decided that I wanted to be absolutely honest to women
about my feelings. I didn’t want to hide my desires.  I was really excited and afraid about
putting this in practice. Why didn’t I think about this before?

How to get a girl to like you: real live examples

After my little transformation I knew the moment would arrive to test my new ‘’methods.’’
I was determined not to hide my desires and doing exactly what I wanted. Soon enough I
would get my chance as I saw this stunning blonde girl which makes almost any man crazy.
I just looked at her amazing body and was already having sex with her in my mind. After a
while she said to me: ‘’what are you looking at?’’ I told her that I was checking out her
body and asked if she could turn around so I could check her back. She said:’’ Do you want
to have sex with me?’’ I told her that I already had sex with her in a lot of different ways.
She was stunned. Absolutely stunned. The look in her face was priceless. I bet no man
has ever said that to her besides me. Do you want to know a secret? I got exactly what I
wanted. I thought later this could be a ‘’fluke’’ so I adopted this behavior and I can tell you
out of my own experience that this will get you laid like a rock star.  When you are honest
people cannot manipulate you. They must take you as you are.

How to get a girl to like you: Natural desires

Society has its way to make us feel guilty about the things you want in life. You can take
sex as an example. Where is it coming from? Probably from mothers who don’t want it
that men take advantage of their daughter. You are not  going to take advantage over
them. You are going to be completely honest. You are prewired with desires and there
is nothing stronger then instinct. It is wired that you want to penetrate her and she is
wired for penetration. That’s it. That is what you want. Don’t waste your time spending
on what people think of you. Spend your time by telling her what you want from her. I
am now at a stage that I don’t feel any shame around women. There is nothing wrong
with the fact when you are in a club and hold a woman tight and tell her that you love
the way she smells. Women get turned on by smelling just as men do . When she is
excited whisper in her ear that you want her. Tell her that you are fantasizing about
her. Just as I said it is totally natural.  I would love to hear your feedback on this.

How to get a girl to like you: Introduction

It is one of those questions a lot of guys want to know. How to get her phone number fast
and easy? A lot of guys think they need to talk for a long time to get her number. What I
have found out to be effective is to talk to her for a couple of minutes and then get her
number. Why is that good? Because most guys stay around all the time. You have to be
different that all those guys to increase your chances of success. If you stay around longer
you increase your chances to become boring. The reason why women don’t give their
number to all guys is because of safety. The last thing a woman wants is her own personal
stalker. There is a great way to get around this.

How to get a girl to like you:  Your action plan.

What I personally do is if I want to approach a girl is find something I can tease her with.
Yeah I know you want an example. I might say; Wow, what an amazing dress, too bad the
shoes don’t match. Bam I got their attention. Most guys only compliment her and now you
are busting her ‘’balls’’. In the beginning when you say, what an amazing dress she thinks
that you are like all the other guys. Just wanting to get in her pants by kissing her ass. But
then you say that it doesn’t match. You can follow up with; I hope your personality is a lot
better than your shoes matching. After that you talk to her a bit and after a couple of
minutes you say that you have to go, because you have some things to do. You walk away
and she thinks; I finally meet an interesting guy and now he leaves. Then suddenly you
turn around and say to her: ‘’Do you have email?’’ She will probably say yes. While she is
writing her mail address on the paper say to her: ‘’Write your number on the back page
’’ The reason why this works so well is that she is busy with writing her email down and
when the mind is busy it will decrease the chances of resistance. When you have her
number leave immediately.

How to get a girl to like you:  When to call?

A problem most guys face is when to call her? When should you call her? Some say you
have to wait 5 days to call her and other ‘’dating experts’’ say you have to immediately
call her. Let me explain what my opinion is on this and what I have found out what
works best. If you call her right away (same day) you will come off as needy. That’s
something you want to avoid. If you can call her after 5 days she will either forget
you or she will lose interest. So what do you think is the best time to call her?  The best
time is 2-3 days. It is the perfect balance. The exception to this is texting. You can
always text her. I have found out that texting is a whole different game. If you want to
find out more about texting check out this.

How to get a girl to like you:  The Call

So you waited 2 days and now it is time to call her. What do you say? You just say
what you want in a not needy way. What? Is it that simple? Yes it is. Most guy say:
‘’Do you want to go out with me?’’ How do you think this feels to her? It feels like an
obligation to her. What do you do instead? You invite her. You say: ‘’ I am going out
on Friday; if you want to join me let me know.’’ I have found out that almost all women
come over if I say this. I think this works so well because you are not putting pressure
on her. Another reason is that you will come over as if you have  a life. You are going
out anyway no matter what she is going to say. You are indifferent to the outcome.
I would love to hear your feedback!  make sure to read the post: what to text girls.

How to get a girl to like you: Introduction

Texting can become a great weapon in your game. Why? By texting you don’t need
an instant response and you have time to think for an answer. And the chance of a
response with texting is greater than phone or email.  In the next part I am going to
show you ton of examples of what to text to a girl in specific situations.

How to get a girl to like you:  Openers

1. How is my little favorite brat doing?
2. I just saw a smelly homeless guy with bad teeth, crazy looking eyes and the ugliest clothes I have ever seen. He reminded me of you.
3. I am luring women to my house with candy. Do you want skittles or M&M’s?

How to get a girl to like you:  if there is already attraction

1. Sorry to break up by text.
2. I think we shouldn’t do this anymore. With you around I feel like a piece of meat.
3. The police just found a burnt body, except it is fatter and with a smaller brain than what’s common, please let me know you are all right.
4. I was thinking about you, because I need somebody to cook me something and do my dishes.

How to get a girl to like you: getting a date

1. Do you have any plans this evening or are you going to sleep on the couch?
2. Are you in for some fun tonight? If yes I see you at place xyz.

How to get a girl to like you: Texting after you had an amazing date

1. I have to be 100% honest. This was one of the most boring and lame dates I have ever had, want to do it again?
2. You’re so much fun. I am looking forward to become good friends.
3. You impressed me today,and I don’t get impressed that often. Keep up the good work

How to get a girl to like you: Texting when she doesn’t know who you are

Who is this??

1. Jack the Ripper!
2. Prince Charming
3. Your greatest challenge.

If you have great tips or variations feel free to drop a comment below.

Also make sure to read: how to get her phone number

Intro:

One thing a lot of guys struggle with is their timing on when and how to kiss a girl.
You seem to like her and you are not sure if she is that into you.  You are pretty
sure you want to kiss her. How do you do that? There is a great way that lets you
know if a woman is ready to be kissed. You are going to use body language for this.

How to get a girl to like you:  Going for the kiss

A great way to start is to stroke her hair and tell her that you like how soft if feels. If her
response is positive you look her right into the eyes in a confident way. If she is still
comfortable tell her that her lip look so soft. NOW HERE IS THE KEY. If her response
is good then there is 99% chance that she is ready to be kissed. If the signals are right
just go for the kiss. Another great tip; If a woman is fine with you touching and playing
with her hair if you two are sitting on the bed there is big chance she wants to have sex
with you. Just act normal and don’t chase a butterfly like a little kid does and you sure
will get what you want.

How to get a girl to like you: How to kiss a girl

But how do you kiss a girl right? There are a lot of ‘’experts’’ out there who tell you how to
kiss her. Most of this is bullshit. Every woman is different and every woman likes a different
way of kissing. I have done a lot of research on this topic and found out that a woman has
an internal map which tells her what feels right. You want to know the secret? A woman
wants to be kissed the way she kisses you.

How to get a girl to like you: Summary

Do not focus on kissing her! Focus on how she kisses you. Feel how wide she opens her
mouth, feel the pressure, pay attention to every little detail and when you think you
got it mirror it back. Trust me if you do this women will tell you that you are a great
kisser. I gave this advice to a friend of mine who never kissed before. And guess what?
He did what I told him to do and she told him that he is the best kisser she has ever had.
If you have success with this I would appreciate it if you leave a comment.

How to get a girl to like you: Teasing her

A great thing you can do after kissing a women is accusing her of kissing you.
Although you did kiss her, it is a great of teasing her and a great way to make
sure there aren’t ‘’weird’’ moments after kiss. Women love teasing. Somehow
women are programmed to be very responsive to teasing, so use it in your
advantage. I would love to hear your feedback on this!

How to get a girl to like you:  Short introduction

Somehow women always want the bad boys.  You probably heard the
saying; ‘’nice guys finish last.’’ But do you have to be a bad boy to get
tons of women?  No. I will explain to you why bad boys create so much
attraction and how you can create the same attraction without being
one. Sounds good?

How to get a girl to like you: Bad boys are an escape for women

A bad boy is dangerous; he doesn’t give a damn about the rules of society
and he absolutely hates to be dictated; he hates authority. On the other
side he is an extremely sensitive boy in a big man’s body that screams for
attention from women. Why is that? A lot of times he is from a broken family
or he didn’t have a good relationship with his mother.  Women see him as an
escape from their boring life. A very strong point bad boys have is that they
live in the moment. When he has sex with her he does it raw, passionate
which makes her feel emotionally close to him. And another moment he is
away and nowhere to be found. He tells her he loves her more than life itself
and a day later he beat the shit out of her. What’s so attractive about that?

The secret is Contradiction. Bad boys are full of contradiction.

Women love that. What else do they got what most guys don’t seem to have?
They are unpredictable. Women don’t know what comes next with him.
Another thing they like about bad boys is that they are strong. If someone
does something to him he doesn’t hesitate to punch the guy straight in the face.

How to get a girl to like you: What you can do.

You can still be very interesting and exciting to a woman without using your fists. I will point out some tips:

1. If someone insults her say something about it.
2. Be honest in your intentions.
3. Don’t try to please her but let her please you
   A Great Tip:

1. Treat her like a queen the entire day and when you have sex with her dominate her. Dominate her with orgasms.
   Tell her that you are going to use her to get off. Whisper in her ear that the only reasons she exists is to take you
   inside of her. Tell her that she is yours and that you are going to take her whenever you want. Make her feel owned
   in the bedroom. Women love that. If you treat her with respect in the living room and going absolutely wild like a
   cavemen in the bedroom you will create more attraction than any bad boy ever will.

How to get a girl to like you:  things she does when she is interested

How to tell if a girl likes you?  I am going to sum up a couple of things that will
let you know that a woman is interested.

1. She uses the same words you use.
2. She licks her lips when she looks at you.
3. She is talking longer to you then necessary.
4. If she calls you for no clear reason.
5. BIG ONE: she is playing with her hair when she is near you.
6. She touches you a lot. Example: her legs are touching yours, her shoulders touching you etc.
7. Suddenly she agrees with thinks she didn’t agree before:

Example: she tells you she hates action movies. Later she tells
you she likes action movies.  Hint: She wants to impress you.

How to get a girl to like you: Make it easy!

You can read all you want about body language but one thing you can use to
make it easier for you is: If she acts friendly and keeps up the conversation
there is a  big chance she is into you. That’s pretty much all you need to know.
You can always learn more about this if you want. Do you want to know the big
key to success with women? Don’t over complicate everything. That’s it.

How to get a girl to like you: Keep going!

One important thing you need to watch out for is that you keep advancing! If she
is all into you reach over and cuddle her. If she looks at you with a seductive look,
grab her and kiss her. If you are making out heavily take her hand and lead her to
the bedroom. If you don’t show your leadership a women will lose interest even if
she was interested in you before.

How to tell if a girl likes you: Final words

If she is nice you are doing well.  Remember that nature has a logical sequence from
meeting to the bedroom.  Always have your eyes opened for the next step or she will
lose interest. Just listen to your instinct and stop doubting yourself. I am pretty sure
anybody can have amazing success with just doing what this post is telling you.
Feel free to drop a comment below and I will come back to you.

Naturally a kiss follows if it goes well. You can read more here:  how and when to kiss 

How to answer questions you don’t want to answer

Women are great in asking questions you that can make you feel uncomfortable.
Somehow they always ask questions men don’t want to answer. Basically you can
handle this in two ways. First you can answer it with complete honesty. You have
to be strong, and able to handle all the drama you will get. And when you say your
honest opinion you don’t back off, like sorry honey I didn’t mean it. This is vital to
be successful.  I am not going to explain what to say, because only you know that.
The second way is going to be explained in the next section with examples so you
understand the complete concept. Good luck!

How to get a girl to like you: examples of things women say

‘’Do these pants make me look fat?’’
‘’Do you like me?’’
‘’How do you feel about marriage?’’
‘’Where were you last night? I called.’’

After experimenting a bit with this the best way to respond is by telling her something
she doesn’t expect and mix it with a bit of humor.

How to get a girl to like you: things you can say

She:  ‘’Do these pants make me look fat?’’
You: ‘’No, your fat makes you look fat.’’   Or: Yes, you look like a whale in it.

She:  ‘’Do you like me?’’
You: ‘’Yes, I like you as a friend.’’  Or: Yes, you are like a sister to me.

She:   ‘’How do you feel about marriage?’’
You: ‘’Great, only not with you.’’

Or: What? I just met you and you already talk about marriage? Why not get to
know each other first?

She:  ‘’Do you date other women right now?’’
You: ‘’No, other men.’’           Or: Oh shit, what time is it? I have a date right now.

She:  ‘’Where were you last night? I called.’’
You: ‘’I waited but since you didn’t call early enough, I went out with another girl.

You might think this doesn’t work, but if you act confident and not nervous it will
work for you just like it works for me. And if she pushes and asks again just say:
‘’Why do you want to know that? Do you feel insecure?’’ If you are persistent with
this she will eventually give up. Women are not used that man saying this to them
and this will trigger attraction inside of her. She won’t act like that but it sure does.
Try it! This is one of my favorite ‘’tricks’’ I use on  how to get a girl to like you.

Which topics should you talk about and which not?

Finding interesting topics to talk about is a common problem of most guys.
Where should you talk about?  How do you keep the conversation interesting?
The most important thing to remember is that it is not an interview. You don’t
want to land a job and neither is she.  So make sure you don’t act like that.
If you watch a dating show you see the same boring topics over and over again.

A  ”typical date” goes something like this:

‘’Do you have brothers and sisters?’’
‘’Where did you go to school?’’
‘’How long do you live here?’’
‘’Do you have any family here?’’

It is pretty painful.  No wonder women complain that it is hard to find an interesting
guy.  Only talk about school, family, work, if you run out of all other options. Also
make sure you don’t talk about politics.  It is something that isn’t good for the mood.
I know there are a lot of people who love to talk about politics but just don’t do it with
a girl you just met. If you want to do it just do it with a good friend. Exception is if she
asks your opinion on something that is related to politics. The same is true for religion.
Don’t talk about the expensive things you have and don’t talk about your amazing  job.

Just don’t try to impress her with this kind of things it just won’t work. I have found this
out through trial and error. You impress her the most if she finds things out herself or she
hears it from someone else. So give her the ‘’gift’’ of finding stuff out about you. Be a little
mysterious. Women will love you for it.

Why do guys talk about boring things over and over again? Good question. I think because
they want to present themselves as nice guys who love mom, have a good job and are
stable characters. But by playing it safe they screw it up big time. Guys have the idea that
the old boring things work.  He buys her diner, has a predictable conversation with her
and hopes ‘’by luck’’ he will get a kiss at the end of the date. This approach society shows
won’t do you any good. You can’t buy attraction with fancy diners but you have to learn
the secrets on how to get a girl to like you without using your wallet.

How to get a girl to like you: be interesting:
Women aren’t attracted to BORING conversations. They are ATTRACTED to humor, mystery, teasing, flirting and things they can’t get.

If you want to create attraction instead of boredom you have to talk about something else. What are topics people don’t get enough of?  It is drama, violence, comedy etc.
Talk about interesting TV shows like ‘’cheaters’’ because they give you the opportunity to be funny and it will loosen up both of you.  It is a lot more fun if you tell her that men are perfect and women are crazy. If you are afraid you run out of interesting topics, you can always learn new stuff. I learned some palm reading basics and women absolutely love it!  And if you run out of topics just be a good listener. You can always steer the conversation if it gets boring. Or you can accuse her of being boring. Two qualities a lot of guys have who are good with women is that they are good listeners and they know how to tell a story.

How to get a girl to like you: story tips

But how do you tell an interesting story? Good question. Here are some tips:

• Begin with something that draws in her attention
• Keep it short. Make sure it isn’t too long.
• Use humor to make her laugh.
• Express yourself when you are telling your story
• Use silence after you satisfy her.

With a little bit of practice you will come far. Don’t be afraid to experiment with what
works, because that will skyrocket your success.

How to get a girl to like you: my personal tip

What I personally always do is to go to places where a lot of action is going on.
An example could be a date in a major city. There is a lot going on and you will
ALWAYS find INTERESTING things to talk about.